Relationships

You Shouldn’t Date A Guy With The Intention Of Changing Him

“Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change.” - Albert Einstein.

By Juliana Stewart2 min read
You Shouldn’t Date A Guy With The Intention Of Changing Him

When you start dating a guy, it’s all fireworks. You get feel-good butterflies, there’s sexual attraction, and everything is fun. Some people get so swept up they claim love at first sight.

When you’re in the honeymoon phase, it’s easy to miss certain character traits about each other because you’re high on emotions and you have rose-tinted glasses. 

Some women will date a man who is out of work or relaxed about his ambitions, only to realize that his lax work ethic irritates her down the line. Or he introduces you to his family, but you’re so excited and overwhelmed that you forget to see his family for who they truly are (e.g., Meghan Markle and the Royal Family). Or maybe you’re vegan, but he loves eating meat.