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The Myth Of The Stay-At-Home Wife

In today’s world of liberated women and #YesAllMen, the stay-at-home wife seems an outdated and demeaning surrender to the patriarchy. History, however, paints a far different picture.

By Molly Farinholt3 min read
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The ability to stay at home is a recent novelty, first truly enabled by the economic prosperity of the 1950s. Since then, the housewife has become a role that many women are fortunate enough to be able to choose. This freedom from full-time work allows for more time with their children, a greater focus on the home, and the ability to explore a wide variety of creative endeavors. 

A Brief History of the Stay-at-Home Wife 

During the Victorian Era, many working-class women had to work outside of the home in order to help support their families. The average woman went to work in a factory, served in the home of a wealthier family, or engaged in home-based work (i.e. garment mending). According to censuses from England, over a third of married women were working for outside pay. These women also had to tend to their own households, so days were long and demanding. 

Lock and drill dept., National Cash Register, Dayton, Ohio. Photographed in 1902 by William Henry Jackson. Public Domain via Library of Congress